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70% of all recurring relationship conflicts are due to 1. personality, 2. values, 3. lifestyle and 4. communication. I have tools for each four areas and more. Let me teach you how to cope with it and and create the life you want.
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It’s all about empathy, positivity, relations and results – a positive mindset, heartset, relationship, life, economy, career and business.
Kasper Larsen, mba
Psychotherapist • Couples therapist • Supervisor • Consultant • Coach • Mental trainer • Meditation teacher • Yoga teacher
Specialisation
Problem resolution, communication, closeness and existentialism. Stress, anxiety, depression, crisis, grief, alcohol problems, sexlife and infidelity.
Experience
Coaching and change therapy on the basis of 35 years of experience, thousands of clients, education for more than $800K and training by some of the best in the world. I am from 1966 and my style is understanding, warm, honest, fast, direct.
Free test, tools and solution.
Get an overview, clarity and a plan.
Copenhagen, worldwide and online.
From crisis to stabilization.
Intensive accelerated process.
6 consultations over 6 weeks.
From stagnation to development.
Prevention, growth and retention.
6 to 12 weeks processes.
Reboot and turnarounds.
Create the life you really dream of.
6 months processes.
• Weekly sessions
• Weekly free online group sessions
• Special free package for fast change
After your first session you can invest in a process and create a turnaround as well as lasting change.
All packages include:
• Free couples test
• Weekly sessions
• Free blog and tools
Introductory offer:
• Free course
• Free book
• Free app
• Free weekly online group sessions
• Free mental-empathy fitness center
• Free global community
• Possibility of extension up to a year
Furthermore:
Immersions, workshops and retreats in Denmark / worldwide can be arranged.
• Goals, responsibility and action
• Make results in 6 weeks
• Most get results right away
+ Relationships
97% Empathy/EQ
82% Better relations
84% Conflict management
+ Wellbeing
85% Happiness
83% Self-confidence
91% Stress management
+ Performance
90% Energy
92% Teamwork
76% Developing others
Above are the results the percentage of clients are reporting after just 6 weeks. Define your own criteria of success, set a goal and achieve it.
• Keep up the good work
• Create deep and lasting change
• Mind, body, psyche, soul and spirit
Most create fast results and turnarounds within 6 weeks with these methods.
But there are many more possibilities, perspectives, layers and aspects to your change and relationship. Most of them are unfortunately beyond your consciousness and awareness.
So without a prior commitment to a longer process, most clients will stop too early because of an increase in temporary results and confidence, and a decrease in urgency and motivation.
As a rule of thumb you should envision a process of 3-6 months. But just start with one session and then we will focus on the package that suits your goal and financial level of investment.
Are you ready, do you want change and are you willing to pay the price of change?
So call +45 61661900
Or read below and think about it!
Those who make a quick decision get quick results (Napoleon Hill).
Solve your relationship problem.Recreate the love, the sex life and the joy of life.Stand together and set a goal.Turn stumbling blocks into stepping stones. Avoid divorce andbuild a new future in six weeks.
Communication and problem solving. Become stronger and gain new skills for life, which can also be used in the family and at work. I have over 30 years of experience and have worked with several thousand clients.Change-oriented, with empathy for the pain and 100% committed.
As an exam. psychotherapist, cert. couples therapist and trained by the best in the world, I know what it takes. I have several methods and tools so that everyone can get something out of it if they want to, are prepared, take responsibility and make the effort.
Take 6 times couples therapy in 6 weeks. For 90% of clients, my concept of couples therapy is enough. And many create turnarounds after just a few times.
Book now and proceed immediately. Prevent the problem from growing larger or becoming stuck.
If your method doesn’t work,why not try ours?
Copenhagen or Online Book couple therapy acute/general. time in Copenhagen Valby or do like 99% and join immediately online per tel.
More efficient online per tel. I actually had a client who was a professor and who had researched it, and proved that it is actually more effective per telephone. It thus confirmed the online expertise I had built up for more than 15 years.
Crisis • Development • Change
Couples therapy in Copenhagen Valby and online specializing in ‘mindset’, sexuality, infidelity, crisis, alcohol problems, adult-child, stress, anxiety, depression and grief.
The relationship heals! Cf. Harvard The Grant Study both alcohol problems, relationships and fidelity are decisive factors for quality of life, psychological and physical health.
It’s possible!
Do you want change, success, turnaround or perhaps a total makeover? Over 90% can save the relationship, achieve greater health and a better life, family, career and finances.
Parterapi-parterapeut.dk offers change therapy. The starting point is you, your mindset, relationship skills, communication and problem solving. The method is psychological, phenomenological, process-oriented, existential, mirroring and feedback. The therapy assumes that you are ready for change, coachable, I-strong, ask, say yes and no.
Parterapi-parterapeut.dk offers direct, fast, effective and change-oriented process work aimed at insight, responsibility, action, coping and self-regulation – psychotherapy, couples therapy, sexology, imagotherapy, family therapy, alcohol treatment, coaching and supervision. Private, business, online, worldwide and Copenhagen Valby.
Several thousand clients have benefited from this concept and these methods. For most people, six times the therapy is enough. Many have even created a turnaround after just two to four times. But not everyone is ready, etc. So you can start with just a single consultation and see what you can do with couples therapy, before you decide on cutting cards.
A consultation is 75 min. The therapy itself lasts 45 minutes. and I always set an extra 30 min. of to attend, questions, practical and farewell. Therapy does not have to take a long time. Internationally, I am trained in therapy in less than 10 minutes. So many reach several therapeutic works at each consultation. As help and support, for the first time you get a pedagogical introduction to the framework, method, tools and support for understanding and navigating the therapy as a client – therapy is a co-creative collaboration and learning process.
Some need help in the early stages of their relationship – a good start, moving in together, wedding, children or sex life. Others suddenly find themselves in a place they did not want or planned for. It doesn’t have to be a crisis – but at some point it approaches ‘make or break’.
Maybe you didn’t have a goal, didn’t fully agree on it, or weren’t clear enough. Suddenly, everyday life and paradigms took over. Now you are no longer where you want to be, but the spark can be found again and the love can survive. For some, it was the head, the heart or the hamster wheel that ran away from them.
Maybe you disappeared into your head and your thoughts took over – the relationship became a ‘construct’ and you forgot to live. The thoughts perhaps led to ambitions and projects or castles in the air, which led to worry, stress, anxiety, depression, arguments, flight and grief.
Or you got lost in the emotions . At first it was nice and you might call it living in the moment. Since a nightmare, where it was the emotions that controlled you and your dialogue, behavior, reactions and relationship – instead of the other way around. Those who succeed are often those who set a goal and stick to the plan – the others wait until they feel inspired and motivated.
Suddenly you wake up in the hamster wheel and your life dreams have been lived out or in reality just a copy and not yours. For some it happens early and for others as a smooth transition. The ‘Wake-up’ call can also be triggered by a sudden crisis, something from the outside, illness or infidelity. Now it is vaguely clear to most people what they want – or at least what they don’t want. But it requires help to organize a new vision and a new ‘mindset’, because the old paradigm ( programme ) no longer works. It must be turned into something positive and better if the relationship and the family are to survive, grow and thrive.
Many people change during their relationship , but rarely at the same rate as their partner. Emotions, interests and value hierarchies collide. Some never found themselves and never really got started. Others reach their goals, realize what they thought was the dream, live out their first ‘purpose’ in life and the children leave the nest – but what now? Career and life are immediately at their peak, the mid-life crisis, the second or third age is creeping in – and then what? Separate-living, living-apart-together, workaholism, alcohol problems, infidelity – or reboot, makeover, turnaround and quantum leap?
Most people want something different and more, but the old paradigm (mindset, program or playbook) does not work or pulls in the wrong direction. Some may just need 1) a little push, others 2) a little more in depth, and others again may want 3) a new playbook and a new paradigm that can realize the future life visions.
1. Start with a single consultation – get an overview, take stock and find out what you can do with couple therapy / psychotherapy.
2. Some just want to go back to a general. everyday life – 80-90% of this can be managed with our short course in couples therapy of 6 sessions over 2 months.
3. Others would like to take the step further, deeper and closer as well as prevent, maintain and develop – here imagotherapy is eminent.
4. Still others would like to give it all a second chance, find their purpose, set bigger goals in life, create a new playbook, turnaround, quantum leap… a new life-script – have a comprehensive solution as well as tools and process that they can use themselves over and over again, for the rest of life… relationally, personally, professionally and who knows, spiritually.
It’s not complicated.
You only need to have booked a single consultation.
Then you can get an overview, see what you can do with couples therapy and what is needed.
Just call +45 61661900
What immediately controls our behavior and results are our emotions. But if we don’t control our emotions, they control us, our lives and relationships. So the question is what controls the emotions. It is primarily the thoughts. But few know that. Incl. what and how it controls the mind. It is the mind – our ‘mindset’. Even fewer know that. And 95% of the mind is unfortunately unconscious.
It is in the unconscious part of the mind that we find our paradigms – and we have mental programs for everything. Love, relationships, family, child-rearing, career, finances, housing, closeness, sex, alcohol, fidelity, communication, problem-solving… But the paradigms are not even programmed by ourselves, so 95% of our lives and relationships are controlled by something unconsciously, there is not us and ours, but basically a program. A program where you yourself have the opportunity to learn how to change – mental change and ‘mindshift’.
Until you wake up, there is only one option. And it is via the traditional way of making temporary, conscious and forced change with the 5% of conscious awareness – incremental behavioral change. It is in competition with the outside world, sensory impressions, perception and thinking – and dominated by, among other things, the paradigm. But it is possible for those who are ready for insight, responsibility and action via traditional therapy – i.e. solution no. 1 and 2 above. If you want to read more about solution no. 3, read on below or click here for more about mindshift coaching .
It is all in the mind.
Body, heart, mind, mindset, mindshift…
Relationships, paradigm, paradigm shift…
Personally, I have worked with relationships, psychology and the mind as well as psychotherapy, supervision, teaching, coaching, mentoring and consulting for more than three decades. However, most people still think that we think. It turns out that our thoughts, feelings and relationships are in fact controlled by what we call the mind. Especially the subconscious part of the mind where we find our conditioning, blueprint, autopilot, program – paradigm.
The subconscious and our paradigm thus automatically and unconsciously control 95% of our perception, thoughts, feelings, behavior, habits, relationships, results and life incl. the couple relationship. So until we make the unconscious conscious, it will rule our life, and most people would call it destiny. So, if you don’t control the mind, the paradigm controls you. It doesn’t have to be that way. Would you like to take yourself, the relationship, life… to the next level?
Mindset, love and relationship.
The heart in the mind and the mind in the heart.
To have someone understand your mind is a different kind of intimacy.
In all the time I have worked in this field, it has been largely the same. Everyone talks about feelings, but no one knows what they are. I wanted to know that. They control our perception, communication, behavior and results. But since 95% is unconscious, we end up being unconsciously controlled by our emotions. Thus we become reactive and victim of circumstances and what many call fate. But it is possible to become aware and to take control. To live by design and not by fate.
When we look at it more closely, it is especially the thoughts that influence the emotions. But the problem is that no one has learned how to think, make decisions, make money or love. Only 2% think, 3% think they think and the rest are preferably free cf. e.g. Dr. Kenneth McFarland. So the 5% of the mind that could be conscious represents great potential for most people. That sounds flabby, you might say. But think about it. But if we could really think, do you think we would have the problems, the relationship and the life we have? If we could really think of the solution, wouldn’t we have already solved our problems?
Conversely, if you could learn how to think and master the six mental faculties and the 5% of the mind, you would be in control of your perception as well as your senses, emotions, thoughts, behaviors, habits, results and everything else in your life . The relationship included. So what is it that is behind and that controls it all – the thoughts included?
The subconscious mind controls 95% of your relationship!
Change your mindset and you will change your relationship…results and life.
Now I know what it is and how to control the thoughts. It is the mind – the mind. I was on my way, because I had already worked with the mind, meditation and yoga for more than 20 years – however, these are slow and diffuse methods – so now in recent years I have studied the mind intensively and found the manual, the playbook and the tools.
Relationships are created twice.
First on a mental plain and then on a physical plain.
I am now a certified mindset coach and specialize in relational / relationship paradigms and mindshift in relationships, families, teams and individually. I help people privately, in relationships and professionally to learn how to think, get results and create lasting change with greater ease, incl. how to get out of compulsive and subconscious heavy habits such as alcohol, adultery, porn, obesity, stress, arguments… And get a healthy mind in a healthy body – mens sana in corpore sano.
Mindset defines and predicts your relationship. Mindset is critical for successful relationships. Develop your mindset and the relationship develops.
Well, it is perhaps a bigger mouthful and cf. e.g. Forskningsnyt for psychology, short-term therapy is still a couple of times. So let’s start with my concept of psychotherapy and couple therapy in 6 sessions over 6 weeks. And should there be some strong paradigms that stand in the way, or a burning desire for turnaround and quantum leap, then let’s talk about a mindshift – or in Danish, a paradigm shift . If 6 weeks makes a significant difference for many, think about what a mindshift program of 12 or 24 weeks can do for you, your family, children, career, finances and future? Next level? Call immediately +4561661900
Based on over 30 years of experience 6 times couples therapy in just 2 months Cutting board incl. free part test and ebook Enough for 90% of all relationships
First consultation in couple therapy See what you can do with couple therapy Couple check, status, goals & solutions Free relationship test
Short intensive course in couples therapy Get your problem solved Clipboard with five consultations Free eBook & tools
Create a new and better future Become the best version of yourself Individual, family & image therapy Coaching & turnarounds
Several thousand couples Over 95% save the relationship Exam. Psychotherapist, Cert. in Couples Therapy Adult Pæd., MBA, Cert. Coach
Sexuality • Infidelity • Alcohol • Psyche • Mindset Couples therapy in Danish and English in Copenhagen and online Over 15 years of experience with online couples therapy
Love, health and quality of life go hand in hand.
When life hurts, or the relationship goes through a rough patch, it is difficult to be intimate, loving and constructive.
Maybe your partner has been unfaithful to you, maybe you are struggling with a deep sadness , or maybe your partner has challenges with stress, anxiety or depression ?
Some have problems with alcohol and others have grown up as adult children of alcoholics .
Regardless of the problem, it affects your communication and problem-solving. Not least, it goes beyond relationships, sex life , joy in life, health and working life.
I support you in creating the relationship and life that you want with the help of couples therapy.
My name is Kasper Larsen, I am from 1966 and have over 30 years of international experience with relationships, process and development within business, psychiatry, alcohol treatment and private life. I am a trained coach and psychotherapist specializing in couple therapy and the mind.
I am therefore the right person to contact if you need help with relational psychological problems in your relationship. You will find me right at Valby St. in Copenhagen.As well as being able to get therapy online per phone.
Couples therapy exists to help with the psychological and relational problems that arise in a relationship.
During a lifetime, problems will arise that can affect you and your relationship with your partner, family and children.
Conversely, the problems that arise in sex life, relationships and the family can also affect yourself, your professional life and other areas of life.
Sometimes it results in or develops into e.g. alcohol problems, stress, anxiety, depression, infidelity or grief.
If you have the right tools and know how to deal with your and your partner’s feelings and problems, you can go a long way.
If you stop by Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen, you and your partner will find out what is at the root of your challenges.
You will learn to gain better self-insight, be able to take more responsibility and understand and solve the problems before they suck all the love and closeness out of the relationship.
Maybe you and your partner have problems in the bedroom, or you find it difficult to communicate with each other? It could also be that you disagree about how your children should be brought up? Or arguing over alcohol?
Arguments and problems in the relationship are common. It’s no shame. It’s a shame not to do something about it. Or to give up too soon and resort to divorce.
Couples therapy can also be helpful if you or your partner have an individual problem. It can be stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma or being the child of an alcoholic.
Even if it’s not both of you having a hard time. Then the problem of one eats away at the other, and that can get the snowball rolling.
If you are not quite on target, Kasper helps you on your way, so that you can create the change you dream of and achieve your goals. Kasper is committed to excellence, driven by purpose and fascinated by seeing people move.
• Imago & family therapy
• Couples therapy & sex therapy
• Psychotherapy & alcohol treatment
Couples therapy is not only reserved for Danish couples and couples residing in Denmark.
Parterapi-parterapeut.dk is available if you are part of a Danish-foreign couple, if you are both of a different nationality, or if you are a couple with travel activities and postings who have problems in the relationship.
I myself have traveled a lot and lived, studied and worked abroad. Therefore, I have extensive international and cultural experience.
My experience, however, is that culture is always a challenge in the relationship. Even if you are from the same country. Because the family, town or country you come from always has differences and contradictions.
I offer couples therapy in Danish and English and support in German, French, Norwegian and Swedish.
We speak the language that you feel most comfortable with, and the therapy can take place in Copenhagen, Valby, locally and online.
Many of the problems affect each other. You may experience, for example, if your partner is unfaithful, then it may be that it is rooted in problems with alcohol or a lack of presence in the bedroom.
The goal of couples therapy is to give you and your partner the right tools to repair what is broken.
A relationship is a continuous learning and development process. Let Parterapi-parterapeut.dk help you to move on without changing each other and at the same time maintain good contact.
Everyone can get more closeness, love, respect and recognition – without losing themselves or changing each other.
At Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen Valby, the therapeutic style is direct, fast and reflective.
With me, you experience honesty, warmth, depth and change-oriented solutions.
You find support and someone who can guide and confront you and your partner with your behaviour, communication and problems.
Relational psychological treatment in couple therapy includes the whole and the system. Thus both the individual and common psychological, social and relational problems. Therefore, it involves both you and your partner as well as your relationship.
Sometimes it’s all tangled up and tangled. Some are stuck, have stalled or ended up in a mid-life crisis. Or wake up when they get sick, fired, the children move or when they have to retire.
Others are stuck in habits, abuse, mediocrity, negativity, hopelessness, abandonment, the hamster wheel or a map of reality and a life of something that is not their own concept.
They have either achieved all their goals or discover that they have never found out what they want in life and who they are. That they have simply lived according to the paradigms of their parents and society.
They want out of their nightmares and realize the dreams they never allowed themselves to have. Finding themselves, their purpose in life and spirituality. Family, peace and joy of life. Personal development, self-realization and self-esteem.
Maybe they would rather live in a completely different way, somewhere else, travel, be independent, earn more money, be successful in their own way, make a difference and leave a footprint before they leave here.
It may require completely different methods – that couple therapy is combined with or replaced by mindshift coaching . It requires a paradigm shift – a mindshift.
Couples therapy is therefore psychotherapy with two adults in a personal relationship, which together, and separately, must create change and a new reality.
The method is phenomenological, relational and process-oriented – honest, direct, fast and change-oriented.
When you and your partner are in couples therapy, you will find that I include tools and theories about personal profiles, personality structure, the soul, the mind, the psyche and the body.
Read more skills, method, process and style under About me.
Read more price and concept under Prices .
Take a free relationship test:
You can take the couple test before, during and after a couple therapy session with me.
You can take it alone or with your partner to start a dialogue about how you are feeling and what you need to focus on.
It is neither a requirement nor required. The first times there is plenty to talk about.
My toolbox is large and the experience is broad.
I have a full-time practice and am therefore ready to help you and your partner when you can no longer see the problems, contain the emotions or see a way out.
When you don’t know how to overcome this pain you are carrying and which has become too great.
You can come alone for individual psychotherapy or bring your partner for couples therapy for the same price. It is also the same price for
family therapy with up to four participants.
The therapy can also be combined with access bars , so you get two treatments for one price.
At Parterapi-parterapeut.dk you get an appointment within a week. If it is urgent, you will come immediately.
Are you struggling with the erotic and intimate closeness in the relationship? Do you disagree about the frequency and quality of your sex life? Or the sex life suffers due to e.g. stress, anxiety, depression, alcohol or medication? Do you dream of being able to keep the spark and to make your sex life work? Do you have problems with reproduction or are you being treated for infertility? Then the solution is sexological couple therapy. For example, talking about your sexual identity, practices, preferences, ignition patterns, approaches, rejections and challenges.
Have you or your partner cheated, taken a leap or had an affair? Have you misunderstood each other and your boundaries? Adultery can be many things and take many forms. Everything from physical, electronic to financial. Some are chat, porn or sex addicts. Do you want to work on the relationship and get back to why you chose each other? Find together again and create a new future. It’s never too late. Couples therapy with Kasper Larsen can be your and your partner’s way back to each other. And a new and better future. The best is yet to come.
Alcohol is the single biggest cause of relationship problems, infidelity, divorce, unhappiness and illness. Alcohol is a solvent and it can dissolve anything. From body, relationship, family, work, finances, house and home. Fortunately, your relationship problems and your or your partner’s alcohol problems are best treated together. Preferably through relational, psychological treatment in the form of couples therapy. Together you can create what you dream of.
Adult children of alcoholics experience problems at work, in close relationships and not least in the relationship and the family. The problem is often that adult children of alcoholics lack a sufficiently functional image of a healthy model of attachment, relationships and family. As well as responsibility, boundary setting, negotiation and problem solving. Some become perfectionists. Many take too much responsibility and are codependent. Most find together someone who has challenges with alcohol. Get help via couples therapy for adult-children of alcoholics in a relationship.
When you are affected by stressful stress reactions, anxiety, depression, midlife crisis or grief, it is not only you and your work, but also your family, your relationship and your sex life that are affected. If you are e.g. are depressed, you can come alone for psychotherapy, or together with your partner for couples therapy. Then you can both talk out and get help to support each other and the healing. Get help for clarification, prevention and treatment of your stressful load reaction, anxiety or depression.
There is not always crisis in a grief, but there is always grief in a crisis. Sometimes the grief and crisis can also be linked to trauma. Here we come into contact with the great existential themes – death, freedom, isolation and meaninglessness. Get the strength to say goodbye and let go of your grief. Without you having to fail or forget the one you have lost. You get useful tools in couples therapy so that you can come to terms with death and life. Or get help for old and diffuse grief, which may originate from your childhood. Eg. as an adult-child of a dysfunctional family.
