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For most people, love and sexuality are closely linked.
Many find that when there is a crunch in the relationship, there is also a crunch in the sex life and vice versa. But there are also examples of a fantastic relationship and a bad sex life. Or a relationship full of arguments and a dazzling sex life.
It can be difficult to agree and to reconcile and balance the two areas. Especially for psychological problems, illness, crisis, loss, grief, alcohol problems and infidelity . Others have challenges with, for example, sexual identity, sexual values, sexual practice, approaches, rejection, frequency or quality of sex life. It requires dialogue and help from a sexologist and couples therapist.
If the relationship is in crisis, Parterapi-parterapeut.dk helps first and foremost with stabilization. So, for example, frustration, anger, stress, anxiety or depression are handled appropriately, and there is room for more sensitive, heartfelt, loving, intimate and erotic subjects.
Sexological couple therapy strengthens your love for each other and not least helps you find the spark in the bedroom again. That is why Parterapi-parterapeut.dk offers holistic sexological conversation therapy. It includes your individual goals and what you need – relationship, body, health, mindset, psyche and soul.
Sexuality also has six basic functions and is one of the three main areas in the relationship. You can read more about that, methods and much more below.
To keep the spark and to make the sex life work, part of the solution is to talk about the sexual preferences and challenges.
However, professional sexological talk therapy is rarely directly about sex.
It is often more about the communication, the relationship, the interaction and the background for your and your partner’s values, feelings, thoughts and experiences as well as fantasies, dreams and wishes.
It also includes your history, paradigms and mindset.
As soon as dialogue is opened up, trust, closeness and intimacy are opened up in the relationship. It creates space for joy, enjoyment, creativity, play and learning.
A good sex life is just as important as a good relationship and both are crucial for health, reproduction and quality of life.
With the help of a professional sexologist and couples therapist, you and your partner get support to create a safe environment. Together you find a common language and a good tone.
Once the ice is broken, it is experienced as liberating, life-giving, creative and wonderful to talk about sex, sexuality, oneself and the relationship.
Find the spark
Get flow in love
Get the desire back and create a better sex life
Get help with contact, relationship and intimacy
You don’t have to feel like there are problems in the bedroom to seek sexology talk therapy.
A good sex life is both preventive and healing. It provides energy, courage and resources to cope with difficult situations, stress and illness.
There are many practical, health, medical, traumatic and psychosocial factors that can threaten sex life and reproduction.
Sex life may be limited, but there is always room for a degree of sexual contact and expression.
Everyone has the right to be recognized for their sexuality, and it is important not to completely shut down sexuality when it is difficult.
Dialogue is essential and talk therapy repairs, maintains and keeps the dialogue going.
Regardless of what focus you and your partner choose, or whether you combine couples therapy and sexological talk therapy, you will receive serious and professional talk therapy at eye level.
As a sexologist, Parterapi-parterapeut.dk respects your and your partner’s boundaries, confidentiality and vulnerability. Sexological couple therapy is change-seeking. Therefore, it is important that you are also willing to confront what is difficult and to put action behind the words.
A common prerequisite for sexological talk therapy is stability and a good dialogue. Therefore, many trainees start with framing, clarification and psychological communication.
We are talking about stabilization, openness and recognition. Warmth and humor often come naturally and provide a pleasant and welcome boost.
It must not go slower or faster than everyone can participate.
Although problems in the sex life may seem like big problems that are difficult to deal with. Then often not much is needed.
Often it is enough with a little dialogue, clarification and recognition.
Many people think that it can be difficult and shameful to talk about sex. But it is not for a professional sexologist and couples therapist. Here you and your partner will find someone who is used to talking about the sweet, fun, naughty, forbidden and difficult as well as the loving, erotic and practical aspects of sex life.
Sex is both the spice of life and what makes us survive as a species.
Sex is actually hugely uplifting to talk about. Both in relation to the relationship, the situation, the process and the therapy. It brings you closer to each other and opens up differences, understanding, energy, creativity, co-creation and innovation.
Would you like to know more about whether sexological therapy is right for you and your partner?
So call 61661900 .
If it is urgent, you will get an appointment within a week.
If it is urgent, you will come immediately.
I am an examined psychotherapist with a four-year degree from a European accredited institute, where sexuality is one of four basic elements in emotional life. After this, I also have additional training in sexuality. Since then I have been trained as a yoga teacher and within tantra.
In addition to being examined in conversation therapy, as Access Consciousness Bars Body Process Facilitator and Access Consciousness Bars Facilitator I am also certified in body therapy. In addition, I am a certified and internationally trained couple’s therapist, further trained in sexology and a member of the Danish Association of Sexologists.
I specialize in couple therapy, sexuality and infidelity – sexological couple therapy – and have had practice since 2002.
As a sexological couples therapist, I receive ongoing sexological supervision and continuing education in sexuality. Within sexology, there are many subject specialties and the individual sexologist has his own educational background, experience and specialisms.
My specialty as a sexological couples therapist is the psychosocial (social and psychological) aspects of sexuality in adults in relationships and sexuality in connection with adultery.
Topics and experience as a sexologist
Since I typically get inquiries about sex addiction in connection with adultery, I have written about the subject under adultery.
Sex addiction can be just as difficult as drug addiction, and every year many people lose their jobs and relationships due to abuse and addiction.
In the case of adultery and some forms of sexual practice, sexological questions can also arise in connection with financial conditions, pregnancy and venereal diseases / sexually transmitted diseases (STD = Sexually Transmitted Disease and STI = Sexually Transmitted Infections).
It is very different which subjects the clients bring up.
Everything is welcome.
Some only want couples therapy, after which it quickly boosts their sex life. Others want to work directly with their sexual practice, after which they immediately experience a positive effect and flow in their love life.
Most people are surprised by how little it takes to ignite the emotions and develop the physical dimension of sex life. Some even find or develop a tantric and spiritual dimension via sexology.
The therapy can also help the parties to balance your physical and emotional sexuality. Along the way, you also learn how they can let go of some of the control, become more open, handle vulnerability and set boundaries, as well as create a balance between giving and taking.
Sex life, like so much else, is controlled by our mind, mindset and paradigm. Some relationships are thus deeply programmed into our paradigm in the subconscious. If it turns out to be a blockage, it will require a mindshift and a reprogramming of the paradigm. If there is a need for a major paradigm shift, read more in the menu under Coaching.