Arguments, conflict management, relationships and couples therapy
It’s about relationships… the relationship is your teacher © Blog with inspiration for relationships and marriage – learn more about the psychology of relationships. The blog deals with relationships, cohabitation, love, sex life, relationships, couples therapy and family therapy. The blog regularly publishes free articles, news, tools and tips etc. Get more frequent and smaller updates […]
Shame / Relationships / Couples therapy
In connection with the publication of the book Skam, I attended a lecture by the author. Lars J. Sørensen, my former supervisor and chief psychologist at Amtshospitalet Nykøbing Sjælland. He talked about shame, attachment, trauma and the path to healing, self-esteem and love. Below article with summary with supplement from my experiential worldview as a couples therapist. Shame […]
Should I say that I have been unfaithful?
Article: Should I tell you that I have been unfaithful? Questions and answers about adultery This is an article in the series of answers about infidelity.At the bottom of the page you will find links to the other articles in the series.You are welcome to print, bookmark, email and share this article.Also see the blog […]
Sex Addiction Test© and infidelity
Article: Sex addiction, testing and adultery Questions and answers about adultery This is an article in the series of answers about infidelity.At the bottom of the page you will find links to the other articles in the series.You are welcome to print, bookmark, email and share this article.Also see the blog and website for press, […]
Separate living & escape hatches / Relationships / Couples therapy
Introduction and summary Running away from any problem only increases the distance from the solution.The easiest way to escape from a problem is to solve it. Overall, we can withdraw physically as well as not physically in and out of the relationship. The motif can be very different. It can span ordinary and daily skipping actions. It can […]
Relationship Test© / Test your relationship / Couples therapy
As a couples therapist, I have developed a new relationship test – in addition to the good old and well-known “The Developing Relationship Test©”, which many of my clients have been really happy with during their course in couple therapy. In order to make the new Relationship Test© available to as many clients as possible, it […]
Relationships, private life, work and love / couples therapy
Can you mix work and relationships? Can you let it go? As a business coach® and couples therapist, I would rather ask that? Because it is next inevitable not to mix the professional with the love. Today, we are whole people who have to function both privately and professionally. At the same time, both areas of life are important components […]
Relationships / MBTI / Couples therapy
Differences, acceptance and understanding in the relationship Love from a place of understanding and acceptance, rather than judgment. I recently attended an exciting lecture at the Jungforeningen on Jung’s typology. What most people know as MBTI/JTI. A tool I have worked with since 1999 and still use diligently as a couples therapist in couple therapy. Read more below […]
Tasks, duties, roles, relationships and couples therapy
Couples therapy, tools and dialogue Most people who seek couple therapy at Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen have challenges with their communication and psychological contracts. It is connected within couple therapy. Because if you find it difficult to talk together, it will also be difficult to reconcile expectations, negotiate and solve problems. Parterapi-parterapeut.dk therefore offers both psychological process support, communication, […]
Listening / Communication / Relationships / Couples therapy / Couples therapist
A difficult thing and a few initial practical advice The first duty of love is to listen.Paul Tillich. Listening can be a difficult task. Some talk so much that the partner doesn’t get a chance to say anything and others only listen to what they are thinking. Some are in a completely different place, in the future, […]