Mentalization in the couple relationship through couple therapy
A BETTER COUPLE RELATIONSHIP THROUGH MENTALIZATION Mentalization is about perceiving, thinking and feeling clearly in relation to oneself, the partner and what happens between the parties. Mentalizing strengthens attachment and the couple relationship, creates insight, understanding and trust and helps the parties deal with differences, contradictions, conflicts and separation. Mentalization as a social function for insight […]
Power in the relationship
About power I was a coach on 19 March 2012 on Radio24syv in the two-hour program Løsgängeren om Magt, where I took part in a panel with, among others, Lars Kolind in dialogue about power and influence, power and powerlessness, leadership and companionship… The starting point was the business world and the political scene. What about […]
Listening / Communication / Relationships / Couples therapy / Couples therapist
A difficult thing and a few initial practical advice The first duty of love is to listen.Paul Tillich. Listening can be a difficult task. Some talk so much that the partner doesn’t get a chance to say anything and others only listen to what they are thinking. Some are in a completely different place, in the future, […]
Happiness, relationships and couples therapy
The hamster wheel As a psychotherapist and couple therapist at Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen, I see far too many clients who have lost themselves in the relationship and the hamster wheel. The happiness of many has come to depend on the partner and the partner’s happiness or the career and the material goods. Pride can be good […]
Consequences of infidelity, sidestepping and affair
Article: The consequences of and the solution to adultery? Questions and answers about adultery This is an article in the series of answers about infidelity.At the bottom of the page you will find links to the other articles in the series.You are welcome to print, bookmark, email and share this article.Also see the blog and […]
Communication, language model, couple relationships and couple therapy
It’s about relationships… the relationship is your teacher © Blog with inspiration for relationships and marriage – learn more about the psychology of relationships. The blog deals with relationships, cohabitation, love, sex life, relationships, couples therapy and family therapy. The blog regularly publishes free articles, news, tools and tips etc. Get more frequent and smaller updates […]
Communication, language use, relationships and couple therapy
Psychological communication > Use of language > 5 tips for wording Free toolbox for communication in the relationship and in couples therapy Below are five practical and effective tips for communication in the relationship. The five tools can be used both in your couples therapy at Parterapi-parterapeut.dk and in your own process at home. This toolkit is […]
Communication, imago therapy, relationship and couple therapy
It’s about relationships… the relationship is your teacher © Blog with inspiration for relationships and marriage – learn more about the psychology of relationships. The blog deals with relationships, cohabitation, love, sex life, relationships, couples therapy and family therapy. The blog regularly publishes free articles, news, tools and tips etc. Get more frequent and smaller updates […]
Communication, giraffe language, relationships and couples therapy
It’s about relationships… the relationship is your teacher © Blog with inspiration for relationships and marriage – learn more about the psychology of relationships. The blog deals with relationships, cohabitation, love, sex life, relationships, couples therapy and family therapy. The blog regularly publishes free articles, news, tools and tips etc. Get more frequent and smaller updates […]
Communication, effect, relationship and couple therapy
It’s about relationships… the relationship is your teacher © Blog with inspiration for relationships and marriage – learn more about the psychology of relationships. The blog deals with relationships, cohabitation, love, sex life, relationships, couples therapy and family therapy. The blog regularly publishes free articles, news, tools and tips etc. Get more frequent and smaller updates […]