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Over 10 years of experience in couple therapy for infidelity
Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen has for over fifteen years specialized in couple therapy around infidelity and has developed an effective concept in couple therapy for infidelity. Couples therapy for infidelity is not just one, but many complicated and painful processes that often get mixed up. The individual psychological processes also affect the parties. As an individual, it is therefore difficult to distinguish between and handle the many psychological processes.
This often requires the support of a good psychotherapist specializing in couple therapy. It is also Parterapi-parterapeut.dk’s experience that psychological clarification, treatment and prevention are best done together and in the form of couple therapy – rather than individual psychotherapy. But if it is not possible for the partner to participate, you can also get individual psychotherapy at Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen.
Can the relationship, marriage and family be saved after infidelity
In addition to a sea of thoughts, questions, feelings and reactions, the processes surrounding infidelity also include processes such as crisis, grief, forgiveness, reconciliation, attachment and trust. So, on the one hand, couple therapy for infidelity is a question of crisis and grief work, and on the other hand, a question of prevention, development and retention – or resolution, if you wish.
However, the vast majority of relationships, marriages and families can be saved with professional couple therapy in case of infidelity, if the parties are just committed, ready, focused and hardworking. In addition, it requires a bit of willingness to cooperate and a certain amount of patience – not that couples therapy in case of infidelity should take a long time. Sometimes it goes fast.
Recommended concept in couple therapy for infidelity
The concept in couple therapy for infidelity aims at handling the three phases of infidelity©, which are Crisis, Stabilization and Development. Along the way, the couple is also supported in coping with the three main tasks of infidelity©, which are Reaction, Repair and Redesign. The concept in couple therapy for infidelity is to build up like a three-stage rocket, so that the couple therapy can be organized according to the specific needs:
- Start with a single consultation in couples therapy for infidelity
- Stabilization by a short intensive course of a further five times couple therapy
- Development through complementary couple therapy, sexological conversation therapy or imagotherapy
Clarification and stabilization with couple therapy in case of infidelity
After the first consultation in couple therapy for infidelity, all parties have an insight into how things are immediately and what is needed around the infidelity. After a further five consultations in couples therapy for infidelity, most have stabilized the situation. You can pay from time to time or buy a coupon for the following five consultations in couples therapy. Thus, most people quickly complete a short and intensive course of six consultations in couple therapy regarding infidelity.
Development or settlement after infidelity
When you are stabilized and settled after the infidelity, there are two possibilities. You can choose to develop the relationship or to end the relationship. But no matter what, it’s good to clean up so that the elf doesn’t come along. For those who want settlement, Parterapi-parterapeut.dk can offer divorce therapy. For those who want development, Parterapi-parterapeut.dk can offer imagotherapy, general. couple therapy, sexological conversation therapy or follow-up couple check-ups.
Sexological conversation therapy and imago therapy after infidelity
Those who choose development are still offered couple therapy, tailored to individual needs. Possibly supplemented with sexological talk therapy so that sex life can also be re-established after the infidelity. If you are interested in the conscious, responsible and living relationship as well as a first-class relationship with insight, closeness and development, there is an option for a particularly retaining, preventive and developing course in imagotherapy. A course of imagotherapy after infidelity can often be completed in six consultations.
The need for couples therapy for infidelity
Most have thus come a long way and further after the infidelity with a total course of couples therapy of 6 to 12 consultations over 2-6 months. Of course, no two processes surrounding couples therapy and infidelity are the same. It is different what the challenge is, how prepared the couple is at the start and how quickly they can work. Some couples only need a few consultations in couples therapy for infidelity and others more. Follow-up couple checks are offered to those who finish quickly or those who want to make sure they stay on the right course and avoid relapse.
Infidelity is a serious crisis that needs to be taken seriously with couples therapy
Many clients think and ask whether couples therapy is necessary for infidelity. It is not if you can handle it yourself. But most people can’t, as it is so complex. Infidelity and especially untreated or incompletely treated infidelity can lead to difficulty concentrating, sleep problems, stress, anxiety, depression, increased abuse, medication, decrease in work efficiency, sick leave, etc. One should therefore always consider psychotherapeutic treatment in the form of couples therapy in case of infidelity. If nothing else, just a couple of consultations to be on the safe side or a few checks.
Q&A about adultery
Articles with practical answers about adultery
In the article series with answers about adultery, you can read more about:
- What is adultery?
- Why does adultery occur?
- What are the signs of adultery?
- What are the consequences of adultery?
- How is grief handled by e.g. infidelity?
- How to forgive adultery?
- What do the statistics say about adultery?
- What do catchphrases and quotes say about adultery?
- First aid guide for infidelity.
By Parterapi-parterapeut.dk
In every crisis and change there is a learning and an opportunity. Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen and online, helps worldwide clients, couples, families, teams and managers to turn stumbling blocks into stepping stones.
At Parterapi-parterapeut.dk you meet Kasper Larsen, mba. He is from 1966 and EAP/EAGT examined psychotherapist and certified couples therapist and sexologist. Kasper has over 30 years of experience and ongoing continuing education at Master’s level under the approval of the American Psychological Association.
He specializes in infidelity and, as something special, he has over 15 years of specialist experience in online therapy by telephone and thus runs a global online business in coaching and psychotherapy. He is fluent in Danish and English as well as German, French, Norwegian and Swedish.
Kasper Larsen has been self-employed since 2002. Before that, he was a top management consultant in the largest consulting houses. As a therapist, he has, among other things, work in social psychiatry and with professional alcohol treatment. For private individuals, Parterapi-parterapeut.dk offers, among other things, psychotherapy, imagotherapy, family therapy, couples therapy, sexology, access bars body processes and alcohol treatment. Supervision, coaching and courses are also offered for businesses.
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Kasper Larsen, mba
Examining psychotherapist with certification in couple therapy and specialty in adultery.
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