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- How to find love in a relationship with couples therapy?<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
- How can you fall in love with your partner again with couples therapy?<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
- How can couples therapy develop vulnerability and openness in the relationship?<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
- How do you create the spark in the relationship and sex life?<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
- How do you develop the couple relationship through couples therapy and a few exercises?<\/li>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
- How can 36 questions develop the relationship and love in the relationship?<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Free toolbox for the relationship in couples therapy<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nBelow you will find the 2 exercises and 36 questions to ask to fall in love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The 36 questions can be used both preventively and therapeutically in relation to your couples therapy at\u00a0\u00a0Parterapi-parterapeut.dk<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0as well as your own process at home.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
This toolbox is also the fifth chapter in the eBook, which you get for free on the journey at Parterapi-parterapeut.dk’s\u00a0\u00a0Concept in couple therapy<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0or by purchasing a Couple check.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Couples therapy is about happiness and love<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Many who seek couple therapy at\u00a0\u00a0Parterapi-parterapeut.dk in Copenhagen<\/a>\u00a0do not only seek couple therapy because there are problems in the relationship.\u00a0They also seek couples therapy to get a good start on the relationship, to take things in stride, prevent and avoid problems arising. Finally, there is a category of clients who seek couple therapy because they are interested in personal development and a better relationship as well as understanding themselves, the partner, their origins, hopes and dreams.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Regardless of when couples therapy is sought, the goal is often common to everyone.\u00a0They seek a healthy relationship in a good couple relationship with happiness, love and space for the individual in the community.\u00a0Below, more about couples therapy at the various phases of the relationship as well as the use of Arthur Aron’s tool with the 36 questions that can ensure the love, spark and falling in love in the relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Dialogue, couple therapy and relationship phases<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Dating and couples therapy<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It is still a relatively new trend, but more and more couples are seeking psychotherapy, imagotherapy or couple therapy when dating – to get a good start on their relationship.\u00a0It is firstly important to finish the dating phase properly and to get out of previous relationships completely, as well as to finish processing any\u00a0grief and lover’s grief<\/a>\u00a0.\u00a0And then, of course, to avoid falling out or overstepping each other’s boundaries in the form of infidelity.\u00a0Finally, it is relevant to know yourself and understand which partners you are looking for and which partners you actually tend to attract.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
For that,\u00a0\u00a0imagotherapy for singles<\/a>\u00a0is \u00a0an eminent tool.\u00a0And if you are already about to start a new relationship, you can take your partner to imago therapy for the same price \u2013 for what will then be\u00a0\u00a0imago therapy for couples<\/a>\u00a0.\u00a0In this way, you can create a good and safe start and create a first-class relationship \u2013 the loving, dynamic and living relationship.\u00a0There are also many individual clients asking for dating guidance.\u00a0For example, what to ask and talk about on your date in order to get to know each other better and to get closer to each other.\u00a0Here, a good tool is the 36 questions.\u00a0You can read more about that below.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The hamster wheel of the relationship and couples therapy<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Since then, most relationships tend to stagnate.\u00a0Falling in love ends, the spark disappears and the sex life slows down, everyday life sets in and the hamster wheel takes over.\u00a0Communication and dialogue are no longer as lively.\u00a0Distance, problems and arguments can arise, or the problems and arguments can be buried in distance and coldness.\u00a0It can trigger individual psychological and attachment problems or, over time, cause\u00a0\u00a0stress, anxiety and depression<\/a>\u00a0, create\u00a0\u00a0alcohol problems in the relationship<\/a>\u00a0, lead to\u00a0\u00a0infidelity<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0or lead to\u00a0\u00a0divorce<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0– if it is not taken seriously in time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It may sound negative, but these are the scenarios I see every day as a couples therapist in couple therapy.\u00a0In other words, the relationship of the third class – couples in stagnation or couples who live separately – ‘separate living’ and ‘miserable married’.\u00a0Which over time either implodes into sadness\/depression or explodes into arguments\/divorce.\u00a0Relationships that can be saved in time with a little dialogue, couples therapy and, for example, the tool with the 36 questions that can bring you closer to each other, create insight and make love rekindle.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Sexological couples therapy<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
While the problems are ongoing, some argue so that it is loud at the same time as the sex life is terrific.\u00a0For most, however, the sex life stops soon or later.\u00a0They end up with ‘separate living’ and avoid talking about the problems, the relationship, love, cohabitation and sex life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
But since most people miss their sex life at some point, there are many who seek\u00a0\u00a0sexological talk therapy<\/a>\u00a0.\u00a0However, sexuality can rarely stand alone.\u00a0The majority also prefer some form of dialogue, closeness, intimacy and vulnerability in connection with sex life.\u00a0Here, the tool with the 36 questions can be a good supplement.\u00a0See also\u00a0\u00a0the geometry of love<\/a>\u00a0tool .<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It sounds crazy, but these 36 questions can make you fall in love<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Couples therapy and dialogue make love grow<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Regardless of where you are in your relationship and process, the dialogue is crucial for the relationship, its development and survival.\u00a0Without dialogue, presence and intimacy, the relationship becomes an institution.\u00a0Couple therapy is based on the fact that it is dialogue that makes love grow, while dialogue helps us to understand ourselves and each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
In this way, we will be able to resolve the value conflicts and daily problems that arise in the relationship as well as to build a bridge to a shared future.\u00a0Next, it is in the deep dialogue that closeness, empathy, togetherness, togetherness and familiarity arise.\u00a0These are some of the basic parameters in a good relationship and what makes the 36 questions bring you closer to your partner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Vulnerability, action and couples therapy<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
But the dialogue does not arise by itself.\u00a0Neither at home nor in couples therapy.\u00a0Dialogue, trust and closeness require initiative, curiosity, openness and vulnerability.\u00a0It’s the same with chemistry.\u00a0Nor is the chemistry or spark something that is just there or not.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
To call couple therapy, the couple relationship or love chemistry is roughly the same as generalising, mystifying and abdicating responsibility.\u00a0The responsibility for how to interpret, communicate and relate to each other.\u00a0How one perceives and thinks, which states and feelings one creates as well as which attitude, communication and behavior one displays and what one does to get one’s wishes fulfilled.\u00a0The tool with the 36 questions, including couples therapy, is an opportunity to consciously take an initiative and to create something good together in the relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Chemistry, psychotherapy and couples therapy<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Chemistry is therefore something we create together via a co-creative process and in the common field, where both parties bring their origin, energy, communication and performance.\u00a0In the same way, love is not a feeling either – about so many feelings, compassion and what we do with those feelings.\u00a0Love is really a desire and an action.\u00a0A desire for the partner’s happiness and an action aimed at making the partner happy.\u00a0Compassion is about interest, understanding, patience, inclusiveness and benevolence in relation to the partner’s psychology, character traits, contact patterns, attachment problems and pain, incl.\u00a0weaknesses, shortcomings and mistakes.\u00a0So where love aims at the partner’s happiness, compassion aims at a desire to support the partner in finding a way out of the pain.\u00a0Couple therapy is thus not just couple therapy, but a form of relational and systemic psychotherapy, where the psychology of the individual and the couple is worked on holistically and in turn, with a view to happiness and healing.\u00a0However, couples therapy rarely does it alone.\u00a0You yourself need to create the change yourself.\u00a0Therefore, the 36 questions that made experimental couples fall in love and get married six months after the experiment can be a good supplement to recreate and develop love and compassion.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The 36 questions you need to ask to fall in love<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Arthur Aron’s 36 questions for closeness, falling in love and love<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Love is thus created on the basis of dialogue and action.\u00a0It is rare that we are just struck by lightning and suddenly fall in love.\u00a0It is more of a dialogical and co-creative process where both parties have a role and a responsibility.\u00a0Among other things.\u00a0to know themselves and each other and to maintain attraction and attachment so that the relationship can work.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Arthur Aron’s research behind the 2 exercises and 36 questions<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Some of the things you can talk about are character, mind, past, upbringing, family, previous relationships, beliefs, values, dreams and goals.\u00a0It also includes sharing about oneself, about one’s attitude towards the relationship, approach to life and reactions to the partner.\u00a0It is important to ask questions about each other and to\u00a0\u00a0listen<\/a>\u00a0, because it shows interest and makes you get closer to your partner’s and your own personality.\u00a0Based on psychologist\u00a0\u00a0Arthur Aron’s\u00a0<\/a>\u00a0research<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0, 2 exercises and 36 questions have been developed for you to ask each other.\u00a0See also the tool the 7\u00a0\u00a0golden rules for 2 living together<\/a>\u00a0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Download the 36 questions and rediscover the spark, infatuation and love<\/h4>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The exercises and the 36 questions incl.\u00a0a number of other tools, personality tests, relationship tests and\u00a0the five languages \u200b\u200bof love<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0can be found on Parterapi-parterapeut.dk’s website under\u00a0\u00a0Relationship tests<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0.\u00a0If your partner is not Danish-speaking, the 36 questions can be found on the page for\u00a0\u00a0couple therapy in English<\/a>\u00a0.\u00a0Enjoy!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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